I flew back to the east coast for the first time since the end of the pandemic (well, since at least 2023 anyway) and visited with family. It was so wonderful that I ask myself why I waited so long.
It was actually a longer trip than that because I started with a visit with my daughter and her family first. Two days that sped by, which featured one on one visiting and group chats, shared food (of course), including seeing my grandson working at his job at a great Redmond restaurant. He even gave me a hug at the restaurant as I left since I was leaving so early the next morning for the airport.
The next morning I flew from Seattle to Virginia. After a two hour drive through rush hour (driven by my extremely kind brother who picked me up at Dulles airport) we arrived in Maryland near the Potomac and Chesapeake, a true waterman's area. The top photo in the post gives you an idea of how it looks.
Not sure that I actually have a bucket list, but I have had a few things that I've wanted to do with my brother and his family, plus a few things for this particular trip. I was able to stay in their home, which was so good. Apparently I fit right in! One of the days I was there I started gingerbread waffles in the evening and finished the batter in the morning. Their waffle iron is similar to the one we used growing up, so it really was a great time for memories and yummy food. Here is my brother enjoying his waffles. The recipe is at the bottom of this post.
I was finally able to go sailing with my brother, plus with his son and wife. It was a perfect day with a bright blue sky and sunshine and Goldilocks temperature and wind that wasn't too brisk...best for a first sail I think. I really loved it, especially watching my brother and is son work the sails together with the kind of teamwork that has to be developed over time. We drove home right at sunset, which looked like this.
My brother has worked in boat yards most of his life and worked his way up to management and then to concierge services after retirement from the boat yard, so he has sailed for a long time. My daughter remembers sailing with him when she was a girl, but I had never had the pleasure myself. Our ancestors built boats on the Shannon river in Ireland, so I guess it's in the blood, and I enjoyed myself out on the water.
The next day two of the particular things for this trip happened. I have a sister who lives in a house with a dock on the Chesapeake about an hour and a half closer to D.C. She agreed to visit and take care of my brother's cats for a few days, so we drove up and brought her south. Before we picked her up, we stopped in a strip shopping center and got excellent North Carolina style (with a vinegar based BBQ sauce) from a hole-in-the-wall shop. It was excellent and they were generous with the pork filling and also with samples. Unfortunately I don't know the name and I didn't get a photo, but I try to get good BBQ pork when I'm on the east coast, so another wish fulfilled. Seeing my Next Sister Down in person instead of just on Zoom was another wish that was fulfilled. Racking them up! She has a wonderful memory and has contributed to this blog, often in the comments, with extra details and with things I have forgotten from our childhood on the occasions when I blog about childhoods foods and things. She is also a skilled writer, so it's great to read anything she writes. Wonderful to get to spend time with her, even if it was too short.
The next day we traveled three or four hours to Sperryville, VA and I was finally able to visit the cabin inherited by my sister-in-law when her parents passed. She has been going to this property that is located at the end of a country road in a hollow in the mountains near Skyline Parkway.
A river runs by the house and you can hear it when you sit on the deck.
There is also bird song and the breeze in the trees. So peaceful. Here is Kate enjoying some of those things as she reads.
Inside the first floor is one open space, except for the bathroom, and it's all heated with a great woodstove. There is also a large loft under an A-frame roof and the deck overlooking the river is spacious and gives a birds eye view of a trail into the woods.
Tall trees surround the cabin and they were just starting to get some fall color. The sense of peace was very strong. I've been hearing about this cabin for years and it was another place I've always wanted to visit. An added pleasure was that one of their sons lives there and I got to meet his new-ish girlfriend and she is a delight.
Because my brother was able to find a nearby rental, I was able to stay there and so was my older sister and her husband. Another sister was traveling north from South Carolina anyway, so they also came and parked by the rental. All in all there were ten of us, including four siblings, and this mini-reunion just sort of fell together. I feel so blessed that we were able to gather and enjoy each other, plus husbands, wives, and offspring, plus girlfriend in such a beautiful place. Particularly nice was that it wasn't for a big event, or wedding or funeral. Our family is quite adept at doing little but cooking and eating, plus talking and talking and talking by the hour. We had lots of time to do that! The next post will get into the food we ate in Sperryville, but below is the recipe for the Gingerbread Waffles from the Maryland part of the trip. Enjoy!
based on a recipe from Mollie Katzen's Sunlight Cafe' Cookbook
2 cups unbleached all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1 1/2 tablespoons ground ginger
1/4 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
1/4 teaspoon ground cloves
1 teaspoon yeast
1 tablespoon brown sugar
½ teaspoon salt
2 cups milk (I used soy milk)
1/4 cup dark molasses
6 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
1 large egg (I used ¼ cup egg substitute)
Nonstick spray
Butter for the waffle iron
Lemon curd – optional, but nice
OR Applesauce - especially home made - wonderful
OR Pure maple syrup – hard to resist on waffles
whipped cream - hard to resist on anything
Combine the flour, spices, yeast, sugar, and salt in a medium bow. l Stir the milk into the flour mixture until blended. Cover the bowl tightly with plastic wrap and let stand overnight at room temperature (or put in the fridge if room temp. is over 70 degrees F.)
Lightly spray the hot waffle iron with non stick spray, top and bottom plates, and then butter a piece of bread and use that to rub some butter on top and bottom plates. Make sure that indicator light/gauge shows iron is still hot enough. If not, let it heat a little more.
Add just enough batter to cover the cooking surface…this varies by waffle iron…about 2/3 cup. Lower the top and cook until dark golden brown…it’s OK to check now and then. It takes about 2-3 minutes. The steam usually almost stops rising when it is done.
Serve hot, right away, with lemon curd, applesauce or maple syrup, whipped cream, or toppings of your choice.
Note; If you have too many waffles for the number of people you are feeding, bake the leftover batter a little less than the ones you are eating, let cool on a baking rack, then freeze and store in the freezer tightly wrapped. Re-heat in the toaster.




































